Yes, that’s right. If your desires won’t manifest it’s time to give up, abandon ship and pull the proverbial plug.
More than likely you’ve set a powerful intention to manifest something really specific into your life and because it’s so intricately hinged upon your happiness you start to feel disgruntled and discontent when you don’t start to see evidence of it trickling into your current reality. This is totally normal by the way.
But here’s the truth, if you’d like a swift kick in the bum…
There will always be too much energetic resistance if you expect to manifest from a place of obsession and unrealistic timeframes.
Yes, you can manifest instantly (in some cases), but there is a great reason behind why time is buffered when it comes to releasing our desires from the etheric realm and that’s because we need to be in alignment with our desires energetically, emotionally and ultimately vibrationally.
Your impatience causes severe vibrational constipation. Think of it as traffic in gridlock on the freeways of Los Angeles – a well known expression of frustration for many people. The cars are the intentions and the destination is the result of manifestation, but no matter how much you push and push and push to get there faster, you have to wait for the chaos to be arranged for you to flow (with ease) to your end-point of choice and desire.
Have you ever seen those people on foot at traffic lights waiting at a crossing? They push the button once at the cross walk and then attempt to repeatedly push it over and over again quite frantically as if it’s going to make the traffic light change faster. It’s this kind of impatience that also blocks the flow of alignment.
A friend of mine once said: “Infinite patience produces immediate results.” And the exquisite truth behind this statement is awe-inspiring.
Recently one of the 16,000+ members in my private Law of Attraction community felt the need for a bit of a rant within the group saying that she was done with manifesting and it was time to give up on “everything” she had hoped for. Usually, I either delete these kinds of posts or I get my admin team to take care of it. However, something made me stop and not want to demonize this woman for the natural frustration that she was experiencing because she was not seeing the results in the timing that she felt would have been appropriate. I actually felt like her expression of negativity could provide a valuable opportunity to teach others not to be afraid when they experience similar feelings.
This was my personal response to her:
“Every great work, every big accomplishment, has been brought into manifestation through holding to the vision, and often just before the big achievement, comes apparent failure and discouragement.” –Florence Scovel Shinn.
If I were you I would GIVE UP. I’m not kidding. It’s actually one of the best ways to release the resistance. And then watch the magic unfold because you’ve truly learned how to surrender and go with the flow without having unrealistic expectations. You are a POWERFUL teacher with this post, showing us all that you are close to a breakthrough after breaking down your disappointment. This is actually a much more powerful lesson to manifest than money, relationships or attracting the proof you need. BE GENTLE ON YOURSELF. It’s going to be okay. Just ride this phase out and focus on things that have nothing to do with manifesting or spiritual stuff. It will find you, I promise. xoxo <3 ps. Sending so much LOVE and gratitude. <3
The art of “giving up” is actually practicing spiritual surrender. It’s letting go and justing being. This is where some pretty magical stuff is allowed to have the space it needs to unfold.
The lesson? If you feel the anxiety, the doubt or the fear rise up please bring EVERYTHING to the present moment and just BE. Focus on your breath, on other things to be grateful for and release yourself from the burden of thinking that something is wrong with you if your desires won’t manifest. Everything in presents itself in Divine timing and the best thing you can do is neutralize the fudge out of your energy, go with the flow and surrender to the process.
“Que Sera, Sera (Whatever Will Be, Will Be).”
In order to manifest more signs of alignment into your life you need to be ready to SPARK a deeper connection with the Universe. If you’re ready to go on a spiritual adventure and quest then I would highly recommend my Ancient Manifesting Ritual. This will help to get out of your own way and help you to strengthen your intuition. xo