15 Things to Give Up To Be Happy Now

There is no better time than NOW to review and examine the limiting beliefs that prevent us from living life to the fullest.

By letting go of energetic patterns that no longer serve our lives we naturally allow for happiness to make a much needed appearance in our day to day lives.

By giving ourselves the opportunity of “giving up” the following 15 things, you open your heart to a profound shift in your consciousness, which helps you to manifest your desires.

1. Give Up Making Resolutions

Why? Because they simply don’t work. There have even been countless studies that show that people can’t seem to stick to new diets and saving money because they don’t create powerful enough habits that will withstand the resistance they encounter. The alternative? Set powerful intentions instead and create a grand vision for your life and an actionable plan rather than a vague one.

2. Give Up Certain Language Patterns

Get rid of the following words and phrases from your vocabulary…

Hate // I can’t // I won’t // You’re wrong // I’m right // It’s always // Everything always // It’s impossible // It won’t happen

Pretty much anything that makes massive sweeping and limiting statements which prevent you from being open to all possibilities and ways that things can manifest into your life.

3. Give Up Responsibility for How Others Feel

When you truly let go of this one you will notice a newfound sense of freedom. A weight is lifted and a burden is no longer on your shoulders to take responsibility for things beyond your control. Happiness is the natural byproduct of letting go of codependent behavioral patterns like this one.

4. Give Up Drama

Stop gossiping, bitching, complaining or adding fuel to the fire. By consciously choosing not to indulge in pettiness then you free your consciousness up and stop blocking the flow of all good things.

5. Give Up Things You Know Dull Your Intuition

Think back to a time where your intuitive faculties were on fire….

What were you doing? Eating? Reading? Meditation practice perhaps? Do whatever you can in order to spark a deeper connection with the Universe. If this means giving up coffee or booze, then try it. If this means saying goodbye to toxic relationships or binge watching crappy TV shows…then you know what to do.

Feed your soul with things that will make your intuition flourish and be of the highest service to yourself and others.

6. Give Up Saying No

Just like in the movie ‘YES MAN’ with Jim Carrey you need to learn how to accept opportunities and put yourself out there. YES is a powerful affirmation to the Universe that you are ready for serious manifesting action. With the caveat that the invitation you are accepting is totally safe and empowering … then GO FOR IT! Yes, is freeing. It will get you out of your comfort zone and allow for new things to be drawn into your reality. Yes, yes, yes.

7. Give Up Saying Yes

Nope. I don’t think so. It’s not gonna happen. Sometimes the “people pleasing” person will say yes even when they don’t really want to.

Be nice about declining offers and feel perfectly worthy enough to say no to stuff you don’t want to do. NO can be really empowering to use effectively. Learning how to say no is a gift, as long as it’s done with conscious awareness. It’s actually a really important element to self-care and creating time to nurture yourself.

8. Give Up Being Disconnected From Your Body

When you are disconnected from your body you can’t truly live a happy and inspired lifestyle that you deserve. One of the best ways to give your body love is to feed yourself nourishing food. Try eating vibrant and alive foods that are all colors of the rainbow. This will amplify your manifesting powers. The lighter your vibration, the more flow and happiness you will have in your life.

9. Give Up The Past

Why? Because it doesn’t exist. And if it still does have a hold on your heart then there is some healing to do.

10. Give Up Clutter + Accumulating Stuff

As a society we consume way more than we actually need. Starting now, make it a new rule to only buy things if you truly LOVE them or need them. Ask yourself before every purchase if you are acquiring a new item because it will make your life better in some way.

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11. Give Up Seeking Approval

The approval seeking cycle can run pretty deep in some people. Once you learn to see that what other people think of you is none of your business, then your life will begin to blossom and you can breathe a sigh of relief. Own your decisions, don’t second guess yourself and stand strong in your unique perspective on life.

12. Give Up Perfection

Nothing will ever be perfect, it will always present itself in the way it’s meant to. Learning to let go of perfection with the manifesting process and learning to be happy can be one of the most freeing and liberating experiences you will have. It also, creates space for non-judgment to reign which is a beautiful thing and frees up the energy for things to manifest in divine timing.

13. Give Up Expectations of Others

You always have to lower your expectations or at lease not have any at all. This way you don’t become disappointed and you release the need to control others. Let other people live life to the beat of their own drum.

14. Give Up Your Comfort Zone

Feel the fear and do it anyway. Just jump. Nothing awesome never originated from a comfort zone.

15. Give Up “Shoulds”

My Nana Mollie used to peel the banana from the non-stalk end – really it made no sense. When questioned she would say it’s ‘A way’ and not ‘THE way’ – meaning that there multiple ways to do things in life.

It is our own programming that makes us think we have things figured out better or more efficient than someone else. Actually, it’s pure arrogance to think we have the right to tell people how they should or shouldn’t behave.

Judgement of others is an inability to see that there are infinite perspectives and ways of doing things.

Affirmation: I accept others for who they are and keep my two-cents to myself.


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  • I stumbled on you by chance, i seriously love your stuff you have given me tons of new divine inspiration. Currently doing your course, love your articles they speak to my soul with an electric spark, that just makes me feel darn good. Thanks for the wisdom.

    From one light to another.
    Namaste <3

  • I loved the story about your Nana and the peeling of the banana. It’s so true… It’s a way but not the only way… Paying attention to this every day in our life ensures we don’t get trapped in shoulds. Thanks for sharing your grandma’s wisdom.

  • “2. GIVE UP CERTAIN LANGUAGE PATTERNS
    Get rid of the following words and phrases from your vocabulary…”

    Add the word “Just” to the list there.

    “I just wanted you to…” “I just think…” “I just feel…”
    That little j-word seems self-limiting and passive.

    “I wanted you to…” “I think that…” “I feel…”
    Empowered. 🙂

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