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The underlying cause of self-sabotage in a person’s life is undoubtedly not feeling worthy enough not being able to receive. We tend to create unnecessary drama or obstacles that prevent us from blossoming into our full potential. We might set New Year's resolutions that fizzle out soon after they've been set and then hope to start the diet again on Monday or save money starting next month etc. This episode is all about how important it is to feel worthy and to receive love.
Don’t panic if this sounds like you because you are definitely not alone! There are a myriad of reasons why people fluctuate between levels of worthiness and unworthiness in their lives. I do it myself, quite frequently too.
Lack of worthiness manifests so many different ways for different people. Some people love to shift the blame onto their parents, their genetics, their circumstances (or whatever) to justify this empty experience of not allowing themselves to feel worthy enough to receive all good things.
If this is something that you know that you do, please be aware that it’s something you are totally able to rise above…and I’m going to show you how. For example…
Let’s just say that you might set the intention you want to manifest a thousand dollars. You do all of the right rituals, think all of the happy thoughts and ooze gratitude from the core of your belly, but there is still a block in the flow of abundance or whatever goodies you have ordered from the Universe. Sound familiar?
It usually boils down to the following three elements that you must cultivate within your soul in order for your life to flourish once and for all…
1. GIVING YOURSELF PERMISSION TO SHINE
Understand and affirm that you are allowed to live life on your own terms. You have nothing to prove to anyone and you don’t have to keep yourself small just to make other people feel comfortable. You must first give yourself permission to step out of the shadows and feel as if you DESERVE the things you desire in your life. Use the affirmation below…
Say it over and over again until your brain is rewired, your heart beats with inspiration and your cells beam with excitement for the future. The more you say it, the more the magic will be unlocked. Try it.
2. COMMITMENT TO ENERGY MANAGEMENT
You must begin to see the world and the way it works as a game. Everything in this entire Universe consists of an energetic frequency. When you start to see that the way things show up in a person’s life are a direct reflection of energy then life gets really interesting and exciting.
You need to commit to holding a steady frequency in your heart that helps during your times of doubt, weakness or frustration. Be prepared to meditate when you feel like crying. Write in your journal when you feel sad. And also feed your body foods that will nourish your soul instead of weakening your connection to the life force. The more you step up and do the work, the more magic will appear in your reality.
3. EMBRACING THE IDEA OF THIS OR SOMETHING BETTER
I have seen so many people that set intentions and then wonder why the things that they didn’t really want begin to appear in their lives. When you set your intentions in conjunction with starting to feel worthy then you need to be open to all possibilities. Everything that shows up usually happens in divine timing for the perfect reason. If it showed up then it was meant for you.
Sometimes the things that show up are just stepping stones to help on your journey of expansion. Your job is to trust that whatever shows up has been meticulously planned by your higher self and the cosmic forces of the Universe for the betterment of your soul.
If you want to become a more powerful manifestor so you can start creating your own miracles, get yourself a copy of The Ancient Manifesting Ritual.